i shouldve seen it coming

[shadowfox]

I'm from Chicago. My ex, for the sake of privacy, let's call him Will. We had a great relationship. Then I had to move away. Although he told me every day that he loved me and looked forward to when I'd come back for Christmas, i started picking up on strange occurences. Like he'd stop saying simple things like "i miss you" and he seemed aloof when talking to me. But he'd get really excited when he talked about his friends at the theatre. It's always in the little things that you can start figuring things out. He broke up with me for this girl who he had told me many times before was just a "friend". Yeah right. Apparently they were together before he dumped me. What a douchebag. He was telling her he loved her while he was telling me he loved me. I knew what he was doing though. He was, in effect, replacing me. I was vindicated 4 months later when he broke up with her after he had the realization that he never loved her, but he had loved me. And by now, I'm much smarter than that. He's a complete jerk.
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[Evelyn]

They ALWAYS end up coming back - golden rule.

Evelyn
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Evelyn

[movingon]

Do they? because my ex-boyfriend left me jobless and took the apartment we were supposed to be living in. He said he fell in love with three --not one, but 3 women he met in Brazil while working there for seven weeks. We were supposed to move in together and instead he came back and said that he had more of a connection with them that he ever had with me and that he was really happy with his life. I had to leave due to no money--he's out in Seattle and my family is in Philly--and then no place to live. He never even sent an email or called to ask if I was okay. He just dropped me hard and fast and claimed it was my own fault, after pursuing me for three years. He is one of the most cruel and hurtful men I have ever been with.
-E

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Originally posted by Evelyn

They ALWAYS end up coming back - golden rule.

Evelyn

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[spearwalker]

Shadow You are a true woman. Yes he hurt you but you didnt post his name. It takes a big person not to do that
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[Khaki]

NEVER, EVER, let yourself be put in a position where you cannot support yourself,if they leave for greener pastures...and don't support them either. I have learned oh HOW I have learned!
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[babybluegirl695]

like i have said to alot of people you will one day find the love of your life and until you do just don't get to close. you may think you are close. but really your not if you don't let yourself.
if he cheats on you your not heart broken why cause you wasn't to close yea you will be mad just cause you got cheated on but look at the bright side. your single again dang thats a good thing go out have fun and fine another one!!!!!!!!

im holly if need to talk with anyone you can talk to me!
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p.s. your good
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holly