Joined: 28 Sep 2007
|Posted: Fri Sep 28, 2007 11:23 pm Post subject: Alvin Pingman Robinson-Pontiac more info added
|Al and I have been dating for 11 years and in a serious committed relationship ever since our daughter was born in 2000. I just found out that he has always cheated on me, however the worst was that he dated another woman for 5 years and accepted her children as his own while not doing for his own child, even telling people she did not exist. he was paying for them to have birthday parties but not paying for his own daughter (yes, while we were together I paid for everything), bought this woman's children school clothes, paid for their christmas's, and regularly gave this woman money all while I was denied for food stamps because at that time I refused to go to court for child support (we were together why would i think i needed to take him to court?)
HE IS A DOG. He likes younger women, tries to throw his money around in the beginning, loves to have his ego stroked, thinks he is a man but really acts like a little boy because he won't talk, he just runs away from problems or stressful situations, he begins out as mr nice guy i will do anything for you i want everything for you and i'm going to take you everywhere. the deeper you get with him, the worse he gets. IF he lets you into his home, he will hide all his daughters pictures so you won't know. i am white he is black however he is very racist, even though he claimed to have loved me and claimed to have loved his daughter that is 1/2 white. he golfs all the time and drinks in the bar EVERY night. he has a very bad alcohol problem......he is always the main priority and he is NEVER in the wrong and won't apologize. he does not financially support his daughter however he has been supporting the children of the other women he has dated, even going so far as to call those children his but his real blood daughter calls him over and over on the phone and he ignores her. i've sat countless nights with my upset daughter that her daddy is ignoring her. he took her kids to soul circus - our daughter asks, he says no. he can't stop lying and has told so many lies that he dosent even know the truth himself anymore (anyone that knows him will know all the stories he comes up with!) he is 50 years old but thinks that a woman can not get pregnant from pre-cum. he does not prefer to use a condom but should wrap it every time because he sleeps with so many women he is sure to catch something. there is so much more to list but i think you get the idea! oh, he also has hit me, thrown me up against cars and walls, and threatened to kill me. he will not admit to people in pontiac that he has a 7 1/2 year old daughter! He is 50 years old and tries to act 25. After you have known him for about 6 months, he becomes a completely different person so watch out and save yourself the heartache!
he has a lot of booty calls and now he is dating this other woman, since february. our daughter wanted him to go on a school field trip with her and he told her he couldnt get off work, just for me to find out that he actually spent the day with the woman. He even had sex with this woman on our daugher's birthday. I had to take a medical retirement and have been just scraping by. he refused to give me grocery money, but bought his new woman shoes, a ping umbrella, and brought her 60.00 flowers to work. his daughter had no food, but his woman on the side was well taken care of. he was doing this all while spending at least 4 nights a week at my house with me and our daughter, sleeping with me, filling our daughter with false hope of him moving in, etc. Don't you think a normal father would be there on her birthday and make sure she has food to eat? These are just a couple of many, many selfish actions by him.
I feel bad for any woman who begins to date him. he has at least 2-4 women at a time, it's NEVER been just one and you won't be any different! He never has been married and never will be!
It hurts really bad and I don't know why God chose to put me through this path in life, but when I heal from the pain, I will be better without him. I Loved him for over 11 years (and he claimed to love me which apparently was always a lie) and he dogged me out at every opportunity to the people in Pontiac. He told so many lies about me to people in pontiac they probably think i am a monster. his ex girlfriend i talked to today said she was surprised i was so nice - he told her i dragged him through court, was a wh*re, white b**ch, tried to take him for every dime he had, even told her that i got him drunk and drugged him so i could have sex with him to get pregnant and i was a one night stand. well, the apparent one night stand, was after we had already been sleeping together for 4 years!!!! So, ladies, please don't believe a word that comes out of his mouth! Save yourself LOL. actually, i do hope this saves someone from heartache. i am devistated he hurt me so much but the thing that is the worst of all is that he hurt and is continuing to hurt my daughter. it's really very sad that he is that selfish of a person.
BEWARE!!!! He only cares for himself. I had to find out the hard way and now his daughter has to suffer because of his selfish actions. and i am repeating myself, I know, sorry, I'm hurt!
If you do know him, have dated him, or would like to date him, feel free to e-mail me. Thank you!! - Christine the boy in the pics is his nephew.